tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3351316794939208602.post1068865839013480982..comments2023-06-10T06:24:50.557-05:00Comments on Adventures in Adulthood: Leahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16639925448456059236noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3351316794939208602.post-25761677514721175572009-12-03T01:04:26.192-06:002009-12-03T01:04:26.192-06:00I'm going to comment on this just because I fe...I'm going to comment on this just because I feel like I need to. Or because I want to. I'm not sure which.<br /><br />As far as I'm concerned, we fought because I didn't appreciate things. Frankly, I like that you're impulsive and emotional and passionate, too. I wouldn't have had any fun with a dull stick-in-the-mud. And the fact that you are blunt with your opinions WAS a good thing, even though I refused to see it that way at times. The stubbornness only bothered me because I'm equally stubborn (i.e. driving around St. Louis for forever looking for a dang Fridays). But, when things happened that hurt my feelings, my first reaction was to figure out why it happened and come up with a "solution" for it. But, after thinking about it a lot, I'm realizing more and more that you shouldn't have had to change yourself. And I was a huge jerk for asking it of you. It's no wonder you felt like crap all the time.<br /><br />When I fell in love with you, it was BEFORE you starting worrying about changing all that stuff. Once we started talking about changing stuff, you started resenting it and I started getting impatient, and so on. But, I know that these realizations are too little too late. I just felt that it was important to say them.<br /><br />The last thing I'll say is this: I'm not unhappy because you're happy. I'm unhappy because I screwed up what should have been my "happily ever after". There was literally nothing wrong with "us" other than the fact that I couldn't appreciate what I had and had to keep trying to change things.<br /><br />Maybe I will find someone someday, but the thing is, I don't want to.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08136603534810864775noreply@blogger.com